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I awoke at 1:00 another morning to my niece Grace’s soft voice telling me my daughter Eden was, as they say in the U.K., “being sick” And boy howdy, was she ever!

My husband, Paul, and I have a team approach on those events, and we’re guided by our strengths. Because I’m usually more patient (if the children are sick) and Paul has a stronger stomach, I extricate the child and tend to all demands, bathing and medicinal, while Paul tackles the clutter. Sadly, this time Paul was in Australia. Happily, my older daughter, Lydia, was there and fondly on the place. I was so grateful to deliver her sister before I switched into the wreckage.

I will spare you the specifics, but please understand that the cleanup was included, and more than once I fell into frenzied gagging and grief. Once I had the very first load (of three!) In the washer and everything else scrubbed and sprayed, the room airing and the small women reshuffled — Grace in with her big sister, Beth, and Eden and her pug, Oliver, in my bed with me — I texted Paul to report the catastrophe. Though I’d handled it with Lydia’s aid, I concluded, “I believe we are going to have to move.”

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Even before Eden’s illness, we had reached the apex of stickiness together with sandiness and heat from damp dog noses pressed too many windows, dirt tracked in the vicinity of the house and molting fur covering each surface despite dire dusting, Swiffering and sweeping.

Perhaps you’ve been there too: there where you reevaluate pet possession, motherhood and life in general; where you wonder — no, let’s face it, you understand — you made a basically incorrect turn — in everything — but it’s too late to divest yourself of the children and the creatures, so now is your time to go hardcore minimalist.

Yes! This is the best way to reside from now on as soon as you clear out all this jumble! But — and you are just being sensible here — your property is too far gone. The only solution would be to put a For Sale sign in the lawn in order to start fresh in another house, which you’ll keep clean and organized and where you may spend the majority of time posing artfully together with your family in your immaculate kitchen. That’s the ticket!

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Or perhaps, you believe, it’s time to take up hard-core drinking … at the basement … in the dark … if you even have a basement. Otherwise, you end up relieved because you can not even imagine what a mess it’d be if you ever did.

I understand this spiral of dread and grief, because I’ve been down it almost every summer since I became a mom and surely since becoming a puppy owner.

Those of us who are Not Obviously Organized may believe our Obviously Organized friends never believe this way, ever, however they do, together with two important distinctions:
This sense of panic is triggered much more quickly in the Obviously Organized than at us.The Obviously Organized take instant action.Again, it’s as simple and as horrible as that.

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Look at this Obviously Organized mom doing a quick pickup.

For all those of us who are Not Obviously Organized, the day-in, day-out job of conducting a home can be overwhelming. Add to that the extra requirements of summer “break,” and it’s a lot.

Here are some tips to keep your house running easily enough this summer months.

1. Flooring are foundational. When in doubt, sweep. I am able to deal with a certain amount of disarray, but it seems like all the wheels are coming off if you will find grit, sand and puppy fur underfoot. We moved into our new house at the dog days of summer and needed to wait until the heating temperatures of mid-September to possess our yard seeded. This meant my kids and the dog were tracking in glowing orange sand and clay all day long, and I almost lost my mind.

I attempt to sweep daily. In the summer especially, whenever I am beginning to feel twitchy, I know it’s time to break out a broom or the Swiffer and attack the flooring. It’s my bottom line in each sense.

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2. Put the extras away. Did you just come back from the beach? Are your bags and baskets dropped by the door? Got back from vacation a week ago and you are still living from your suitcases?

That is that the line of demarcation between the Obviously Organized and those of us who are not. The Obviously Organized, no matter how exhausted, will summon the power to put everything away, immediately, because it will drive them mad to leave it.

It’s usually a stick in the eye for all those people who reside with them. We only want to fall and relax, but if your vacation has thrown up throughout your property, that is the final action to take. It’s time to hit it. Call the kids and have everyone pitch in. Collect all of the dirty clothes and take them into the laundry room; put away all of the clean clothes and blankets and return the suitcases to storage. That final one will almost kill you — I understand — but doing it’s going to feel good.

Trip to the beach? Hang any moist towels and matches and put the toys away and leftover snacks. If you ever brought a cooler, make sure to empty it! We Not Obviously Organized people love to overlook that.

It really takes only a few minutes, and none of it requires thinking, only a little running around.

3. Create a sacred space. My home is open idea. When you walk in the front door, there’s a small entrance that ushers you in the main room: a 8-foot farm table right ahead, kitchen into the left and living room to the right.

Our kitchen is essentially a galley with a massive island replacing the next wall. The island would be your first horizontal surface you find coming in from the mudroom, and I understood it will be ground zero for all the crap that our family awakens in.

Thanks to respectful requests, outright threats and replicated confiscations, the island is generally clear. The end of the table, only adjacent, is another story, but we are on a journey, right?

Pick a space and fight to keep it clean and free of clutter.

This kitchen provides you the gist of mine, minus the gazillion dollars for your tile, range hood and built in refrigerator as well as the huge arrangement of flowers, which might not be permitted on my island!

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4. Have a break. In case you have school-age children, I do not recommend taking on large cleaning and decluttering jobs in the summer — the exception being if you are on a complete vision quest like I was three decades ago.

A poem I have seen on plaques comes into mind (author unknown):

“Cleaning and scrubbing can wait for tomorrow,
For babies grow up we have learned to our regret,
So head to bed cobwebs and dust go to sleep.
I am rocking my infants cause babies do not keep.”

The assertion: you need to choose cleaning or your children, and you’d better choose those babies!

I believe that you can do both. Obviously, when you are Not Obviously Organized and generally struggle to keep consistency in cleaning, you need to pace yourself. That is true whether or not you have children. Take the long view, gradually make new customs and revel in the long and lovely days of summer with your children.

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When my sister-in-law and her husband announced their pregnancy, I couldn’t wait to help them look a nursery. They both love music and going to concerts, so I used a ideabook to discuss plenty of ideas for creating a rock-n-roll motivated room to get their son. My new nephew only entered the world and arrived home to a nursery filled with modern and colorful musical vision. If you want to add rhythm to your child’s room, here are 20 ideas to get you started. — Laura from JourneyChic

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Colorful Music Notes Vinyl Art Stickers By decals murals – $34.99

You might have high hopes your baby will one day be able to carry a tune, but if they grow to have more interest in dinosaurs compared to D sharps, these vinyl decals will easily come off your walls.

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Natural Wood Baby Rattle Teether, Organic by Smiling Tree Toys – $14

Wooden rattles are ecofriendly and also a cute way to present the electric guitar into even the tiniest musician.

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Picture Brown Rug – $344

The inspirational sentiment from a classic Beatles tune is right below your feet on this exceptional area rug. What a wonderful word for your kids to see as they slip on their shoes for your day.

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Clef Rug – $44

If you are more likely, the modern twist on musical notes on this neutral rug may set the tone to the space in a subtle way.

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Full Circle Crib Bedding – $24

Not only do I love the colors in this realm of Nod collection, but the circles remind me of old LPs. My sister-in-law transformed the crib bumpers into valances, adding “documents” into the windows.

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Guitar, Drum and Vinyl Record Baby Paper Mobile From Whimsical Accents – $60

I love crafts, but this instrumental mobile is outside my skill set and patience degree. Fortunately this Etsy vendor does a beautiful job and will even personalize the colors — my sister-in-law purchased one for her son’s room.

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Origami Crane Mobile Children Decor From SpareBedroomStudio – $23.20

You’ll be pregnant for two months, so make one paper crane from sheet music each four weeks and you’ll have a mesmerizing mobile for your baby. Or, just take the easy path and let an origami artist do it to you.

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Ten Vintage Sheet Music Paper Butterflies for Wall Decor By Hip & Clavicle – $22

I adore the delicate wings of these paper butterflies crafted from sheet music. I’d put a whole lot above baby’s crib.

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Rock and Roll Rockstar Closet Clothing Dividers From potatopatch

Closet dividers are convenient to keep all those talented outfits organized by size and age. These will add stone star flair into the nursery’s cupboard.

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Musical White and Black Letters By Brooklyn Hilts – $6

It’s super simple to decoupage a wooden monogram (I’ve directions on my blog). Use sheet music instead of scrapbook paper to create a musical monogram.

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Retro Vintage Art Print Cassette Tape And LP By urban tickle – $38

Yeah, I remember cassette tapes and documents (there’s a Debbie Gibson LP somewhere in my parents’ home) and so adore these brightly colored prints in rich hues ideal for a boy’s room.

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Framed 1944 Nursery Rhyme With Music by BRozypalcrafts – $20

This would be so simple to DIY. Look for a vintage songbook to use and paint a cheap frame for a custom look to match the nursery’s colors.

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Alphabet Poster Musical Instrument ABC’s By Tin Whistle Press – $40

Your wee one will learn all of the letters from the alphabet as well as all of the tools in the orchestra with this fantastic print.

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Baby Girl Subway Art Wood Sign, Isn’t She Lovely By Wall Bling – $65

Stevie Wonder’s iconic tune is set to print on this meaningful wall art. What a terrific way to let your kid know how she is, while also sharing a gorgeous song.

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Retro Owl With Drums Print By Lee ArtHaus – $15

My sister-in-law fell so in love with this gifted little owl she purchased the whole series. Who can resist those big round eyes?

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Children’s Art Print, Someday I’ll be a Rock Star From Pumpkin & Butterfly – $18

Maybe she’ll be a rock star with a guitar, or perhaps a rock star with a microscope. In any event, this print allows your kiddo know that large things are possible.

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B Is To Boombox Print By Finny And Zook – $12

This alphabet art reminds me of ’80s movies showing dudes in neon pants strutting down a Southern California boardwalk. They have got the boombox’s volume cranked up so everyone can hear the sound of that synthesizer.

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Flute Playing Cat Print By Jango Arts – $12.50

Hey diddle, diddle the cat and the flute? I adore this cute little feline and her dancing mice — such a pretty addition to get a feminine nursery.

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Modern Guitars Nursery Wall Art From metrobabycards – $10

Don’t you just adore the modern color scheme within this guitar print? I love the combination of pink and tangerine.

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Beatles Collections Print By Lily Gene – $20

My sister-in-law discovered this cute shape of The Beatles, that is available in many distinct colors. Her husband had been psyched to have his favorite group represented in the nursery!

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As soon as you’ve got bedbugs, even moving out might not eliminate them. These creatures planted eggs in furniture, mattresses and even clothes, which hatched, begin feeding on the blood of the human host. You will know you’ve bedbugs in the bites and tell-tale skin irritation brought on by an anticoagulant that prevents the blood from clotting while they suck. California protects tenants from bedbug infestations through the habitability laws of the state.

State Habitability Standards

California tenants have the right to property that is fit to live in, known as the implied warranty of habitability. Homes comply if they’re generally safe and meet local and state building and health codes. Bedbugs and insect problems, such as insects, vermin, rodents and cockroaches, are deemed dangerous to human health.

Immediate Action

Contact your landlord, When you have bedbugs. Until you inform him about 13, he is not liable for the infestation. State law gives a reasonable period to him. For some offenses of the implied warranty of habitability, 30 days is considered a reasonable interval. Bedbugs are a unique case. Because they spread it is probably your landlord must take steps to minimize the outbreak.

Blitzing the Bugs

Professional decontamination is the order of day — this is not the time to get a can of insect spray. His obligation is fulfilled by your landlord just if he hires an exterminator eliminate the bugs and then to map the infestation. You have to allow the exterminator and your landlord onto the property to fix the problem. The pest management company must give written notice of the pesticides used during the treatment to both you and the landlord. You should be given a copy of this note by the landlord prior to signing the agreement if the property has been treated earlier.

Tenant’s Duties

Bedbugs thrive in clutter. To help the exterminator, you should clean up and remove all items from the closets, shelves and drawers. Wash clothes and all bedding and secure them in plastic bags. You will want to move out during the extermination. You can move back in the day, but in severe cases for more you might need to go out. Whether you can control the landlord for this depends upon who led to the infestation.

Who Pays?

The landlord includes the duty of habitability, therefore he’s accountable for the exterminator’s costs, your relocation expenses and sometimes even the price of any items which need to be destroyed. If you caused the problem, you must cover rather. Arrangements in California generally require so as to avoid pests tenants to maintain the property sanitary.

Unresponsive Landlord

You might use up to a month’s lease if your landlord does not respond in eliminating the bedbugs within 30 days. Be certain that you have not caused the infestation, and you are dealing with bedbugs nevertheless. The landlord can sue you to recoup the money you deducted from the worse — or lease, file for eviction based on your own non-refundable if you get it wrong.

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